Whom Shall I Marry?

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In an age when romantic relationships are often built on the foundations of attraction, emotional compatibility, or shared interests, this book offers a clear, biblical, and much-needed guide for Christians considering the choice of a spouse. Written by Andrew Swanson, Whom Shall I Marry? presents a solid, realistic, and grace-filled case for the importance of marrying only in the Lord.

Taking key verses such as 1 Corinthians 6:20 and 7:23 —where we are reminded that we are not our own, but were bought at a price—as its starting point, the author explores what it means to honor God through our married lives. The central question guiding this book is: How can a believer make one of life’s most important decisions—marriage—without compromising faithfulness to Christ?

Swanson approaches the subject from a biblical, pastoral, and practical perspective:

• First, he establishes the general rule: to marry only in the Lord.
• Then, he explains the implications of this teaching and how it affects both the spiritual and emotional lives of those who desire to follow Christ faithfully.
• He offers two negative reasons to avoid marriage with unbelievers (such as spiritual division and the danger of drifting away from God) and three positive reasons (unity in faith, shared divine purpose, and mutual strengthening in Christ).

The book concludes with practical advice for those already married to an unbeliever, real-life testimonies of people who have faced these challenges, and suggestions for finding a partner with whom to share not only life, but also faith.

Ideal for young Christians, single believers seeking guidance, youth leaders, or pastors involved in pre-marital counseling, this booklet invites readers to see marriage not merely as a human contract, but as a covenant under God , designed for His glory.